I have 4 DCs, aged 7, 6, 4 and 1. Last year, the three elder ones were in school, but this year I have withdrawn my 6yo DD as she seemed so unhappy each morning about going and then each afternoon about the mountains of homework she got. I read up about HE having not really known about it before and thought it sounded brilliant and so much more sensible than all that pressure she didn't need.
So I started (in August here) in high spirits, explained to her that we'd do a bit of reading, writing, maths and exercise each day and apart from that it's up to her. We don't have a very long day, what with school runs for the 7 and 4yos, so that takes a good chunk of our time. We read lots, but though she's a good reader, she just wants me to read to her.
I came across some of her books from last year recently and looked at the high standard of work - neat writing every day (she says she doesn't like it now) and beautiful pictures that she used to draw. She used to sit and colour in pictures at home really carefully, too.
Then there's the standard of work she's choosing to do for English and Maths, which is basically stuff she did at school last year or two years ago, so that she can get a sticker, or whatever reward it is on the computer program we have.
I read a lot over the summer about children's natural inquisitiveness and desire to learn, and all she seems to want to do is regress. What with the heat and dust here and general lack of things to do (could go to the market, for example, but it's quite an overbearing place, no English spoken, could easily get lost, and don't have pushchair or carrier for 1yo!), I'm feeling quite despondent.
Can anyone give me some advice or reassurance? Am I giving her too much free rein? Or not enough?! Am I just not creative enough with finding things to do?
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lostinafrica · 12/09/2011 20:50
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