I'd like a bit of objectivity please.
I am applying for work after staying at home for the past 6yrs with my dd's. dd1 is 6 and in full time school, dd2 is nearly 4yr and at school nursery in the afternoons. In order to go back to work I'm going to be putting her in private nursery for the mornings.
My mom has just had a good go at me for even contemplating this. "dd2 is too young to be away from you all day, its too disruptive for her, you won't be able to cope etc"
Now I doubt dd2 will even notice that I'm not there all day. She's very independant, confident and bubbly child. Loves going to nursery
My mom says it just her worrying as mothers do but was basically implying that if I were a better mother I wouldn't consider it.
I don't think I'm doing anything out of the ordinary and tbh I need to do this now for myself as much as anything after 6yrs of being at home.
I also have a very supportive dh, who will help me with housework and childcare arrangements if I get a job.
So am I doing the right thing?
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Am I doing the right thing - mother thinks not
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Ladygooga · 11/09/2009 10:42
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