This has probbaly been done a thousand times but I need your advice. I have 2 DCS who in Spetember will be 4 and 18 months. I have a PT job to return to for 2 days a weeka dna childminder lined up. We have debts and a large mortgage but we coudl just about get by on DHs salary. My money would make life more comfortable, not hugely but would put us ina more secure position. So my head says go back.
However, my heart says stay. I am worried sick about the DCS settling into the CMs, particularly the younger one who has never been left. I would like at least another 18 months off as DD starts reception in 2010 and by then DS will be able to understand more. I know it would be a struggle for us financially. I don't like my job although I appreciate I am lucky to have a PT job that pays so well. A career break is not an option and there is no guarentee I would be able to get back into that job if I had so long off.
Do I follow my head or my heart?
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Greatfun · 22/06/2009 08:47
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