So this one takes some explaining.....
I recently finished a one year maternity cover contract which was my first job after having DS (was made redundant from job I had before that). Job was good but really stretched me and very very busy. Got pg half way through but lost the baby at 20 weeks, right near the end of the contract. Left in March.
Have been looking for a job since then, without much luck, and getting v. frustrated as want to ttc again but didn't want to without getting new job. Finally the other night DP and I had a talk and he says to come and work for him freelance, his business really needs some help, and then we can ttc straight away and when I go off from his business on Mat Leave, we hire someone to replace me. And I can take on other freelance stuff at the same time if it comes up.
So I have one job application still out there that I'm waiting to hear about, so I say to DP ok if this one doesn't give me an interview, then I'll work for you. Trouble is, working for him is not at all in the same career path as I had been following so it would make it difficult to get back into my career afterwards.
THEN.....the place I did the maternity cover contract promotes the woman I covered for and creates a new role which they start advertising today, which is right up my street, flexible hours welcomed, etc etc
So do I apply for the job at my old place? When I worked there before it did completely wipe me out, but they've created two roles where I was doing just one, so it would be less busy. Also there was one member of the team that was a total nightmare to manage, and this new role would mean line managing them, so that's a minus point.
But it's more money, and a good pension.
But DP really wants me to work for him (I've already started doing some work for him) and it's shorter hours with DP and a lot easier.
So do I coast it a bit with DP but risk my career, or do I apply for this new job even though it would probably be much harder work? I have noticed that I'm a better mum when not working so hard, so that's a factor....
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Ok, I'm in a dilemma and could really do with some advice! ( a bit long, sorry)
LittleMyDancing · 16/06/2008 20:52
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