I have been back at work for 4 weeks following 53 weeks off (mat leave and annual leave). To my great suprise I am really enjoying work and I really look forward to my 3 days at work. My major problem is that I have lost confidence in ny abilities as a parent and I am really struggling particularly on thurs and fri when hubby works. This is really getting me down as i negotiated workibg part-time in order to ensure qualiry time wirh my ds 11months) but at the moment i dread those days and i feel so guilty :-(
I have had depression in the past and I am concerned that if this situation does not improve I will need to go back on anti-ds which I don't really want to do.
The key thing that i have lost confidence in is how to play with ds who has just started toddling holding onto our hands and is now just wanting to explote constanly. Ourhouse is rented and not easily bsby proofed so feel like im constantly trying to prevent him from hurting himself. This may improve as we have now cleared the nursery of all the crap that had got dumped there so now ds has a safe room in which he can play
But what do i do with him? Do i just let him explore on his own with me veing there is that enough. Up until going back to work i took a very
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Crisis of confidence since returning to work
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crazybutterfly · 04/11/2012 02:05
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