Today my dd 8 was not allowed to use the computer at school which she had been promised she could when she'd asked (politely) yesterday. There appeared to be a valid reason but she had been planning to work on this project she is doing and had spent ages planning exactly what she wanted to do and so consequently burst into tears and continued sobbing for some time (shaking, repeating how unfair it all was over and over again).
Whilst she wasn't rude or naughty I obviously understand that she needs to learn that it is not acceptable to fall to pieces over tiny disappointments, but what annoyed me is that my dd was told - "of course you can help it", "snap out of it" and "get a grip" along with "you're only doing it for attention" (which I know is not true). No one would dream of saying these things to a kid who was struggling with maths and yet somehow it seems OK when a child struggles with emotional control.
Just wondered if this was unfair or whether I am being unreasonable/oversensitive.
Have had a bit of teasing about the way she talks also this week so maybe just letting it get to me a bit too much.
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Is this fair?
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gracemargaret · 14/05/2008 19:42
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