I apologise if this is a long post but im a little desperate for some outside opinions. Im growing increasingly concerned about my 6 year old son and don't know if he could potentially be gifted, autistic or something else.
He is in primary 3 (equivalent of year 2 I think) and has been having some issues at school regarding his behaviour. I've had to leave work or numerous occasions to collect him because he is throwing things, running around and generally being unsafe. It seemed to get a little better when he was working one to one with a pupil support assistant but there were still a couple of 'slips'. He was back in class full time for three days, but again I had to pick him up early today. I have no problems with him at home, he is so well behaved, kind and helpful.
He is alone at break times and doesn't have any friends in his class, he tends to want to interact with the older kids, and was rather upset on the last day of school when the older kids left for high school. Myself and the school are concerned about his lack of social interactions but nothing is really being done to facilitate this.
He is great at reading, currently reading harry potter by himself at home, and in the highest reading group at school. He is phenomenal at maths, doing age 9-10 workbooks at home and was doing extra work at school last year with a primary 5 (year 4) teacher. The school said they were going to assess his maths level months ago but I still haven't heard anything other than that he has a lot of great skills that others his age don't have. I don't know if I should be more persistent with them or just pursue another route.
We've done a bunch of online IQ tests, which I know may not be totally accurate, but he consistently scores over 120, and he has asked to do more because they are fun.
He's always been a bright child in my opinion and has always had a particular fascination with numbers and maths. After a lot of google research I still don't know whether he could be gifted or autistic, as it can often be very hard to tell the difference.
Is it worth taking him to the doctors? Or a specialist of some sort? Or am I just being paranoid?
Any advice would be greatly appreciated, thanks.
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Kaandii · 19/08/2019 22:09
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