How do you deal with it?
I'm posting in this section to avoid the inevitable accusations of boasting and hoping for some input from parents with similar experiences.
DS is in Y7. Very bright, very sporty. Went to primary with a similarly (if not slightly more) talented kid and they had a friendly rivalry and balanced each other out. But they have gone to different high school and the one DS goes to is not massive.
DS seems to win everything: maths awards, chess competitions, sports races, everything that's genuinely measurable. He is also really good at the everything else like Art and music and English and football and apparently fantastic at coding. Parents evening was basically his teachers telling us how amazing he was.
Now we're not getting carried away by this, we have three older ones who were similarly bright, went to good Unis but probably slightly under achieved due to poor work ethic, so we know there's a long way to go. DS is very motivated and driven though, in a way the older kids weren't.
At the moment we are dealing with him winning everything in quite a jokey way (and from what he's said the teachers are doing the same). He's a likeable kid, totally modest, never brags, has loads of mates, says he never gets any stick at school and would laugh it off if he did. Out of school he's just your average kid, gaming and messing around on his bike.
But I remember being in school and getting stick for being bright and learning to mask it. I just worry that sooner or later there'll be some big backlash, some other bright kids might get jealous. I'd be perfectly happy for him not to get all the prizes (even if he deserved them) just to share it out a bit. Perhaps we should have tried to send him somewhere more academic?
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TinklyLittleLaugh · 24/05/2018 10:32
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