DD2 is aged 7 and 3/4. She got a 4a for literacy in SATS aged 6 and has reading age 12 or 13 +, is above average at numeracy too though not "gifted" definitely able. A little shy outside the home, nary a complaint from school, but orders us about and can be hard to cope with in private-if you can get her nose out of book, she then talks incessantly, obsesses with stories, bosses us about, gets down and tragic about things daily, hits DD1 and says very cutting put-downs to me and DD1.
Recently she changed schools, another good local state school in year 3. I spoke to head about her reading and was assured there was a G&T person. She has settled well and it has boosted her confidence socially (phew!). She has found the classwork very simple and is already looking down a bit on new classmates which I try to combat.
Problem: Teacher yells at the kids-she tells me not at dd2, but because of some naughty ones the whole class gets it, and she finds him scary. She now says all of the work is too easy, she hands in everything early with 100% but is told to read some "stupid Spot" book on the table while the rest catch up. The teacher is male which she hasn't had before, seems very nice to me, she doesn't like noise and I imagine he is more powerful than her female teachers when raising voice. But maybe he is yelling a lot who knows.
I told her to ask politely for harder work, but she says she is too scared and everyone in the "handing in" line will hear, and told me about their Traffic Light system which will culminate in her being expelled for such impertinence!
am I going to have to go in already? How long should I wait do you think?
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Habanera · 18/11/2010 12:19
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