Hi I am 23 years of age, I got a four year old girl and 18 month old boy, because we got a boy and a girl me and my husband decided we didnt want anymore children for a good while or maybe none. As I got constant headaches with the injection after my daughter, I was advised the pills are not the best method for me, so I decided to go for the copper coil. As I started my periods when I was a teenager, I used to struggle, due to pain, cramps and heavy bleeding, and so did my other two younger sisters. Anyway after the coil, all my problems started:
1: pain and bleeding after intercourse
2: also going to toilet regularly, cant hold my urine, have to hold the area so i try not to leak before i get there, you can call it bladder weakness
3:: still heavy period going through tampons and pads like nobodys business, changing every hour, restricted to outdoor activities, i cant even go to my mums, cause im scared i will leak through since i have been changing my pants continousoly through the day and having my sons nappy changing mat under me at night with regular trips to toilet to change sanitary towels.
4: recent pelvic pain and bone in the bum pain, which resulted in a week in bed, with hot water bottle, having to put my hand under my bum to get up comfortably
5: I was anaemic whilst teenager, so I have been on iron meds for over ten years.But recently its affected me, I have been having alot of dizzy spells.
Stomach feels bruised when slightly firmly touched
Sometimes left side pain in stomach like tip of knife being poked slightly.
Anyway, I have had 3 occasions where I have heavy 7 day bleeding each time within 5 weeks. I had a gap of twenty days since my last period started before all this happened, I have got a bad back in result ie the pain you suffer when having contractions. I went to GP, my urine test was clear from infections. So then I went again,I was given and internal Examination just in case the coil was out of place, which it wasn't. GP took 3 swabs, and told me that it will take two weeks for results. In the meantime I have been given antibiotics called Oflaxcin and Metronidazole to take for two weeks twice a day each. If the swabs come clear they will send me for a scan but GP said it maybe FIBROIDS. i have had a weight gain in my belly since the last 6 months, and i get asked, are you pregnant? it looks as if i am 12-13 weeks pregnant, i am very slim, so you can hardly tell i already have two children. I would also like to mention that I have had an underactive thyroid since birth, had a total thyroidectomy and radioterapy in 2006, just after my daughter turned the age of one. although, I have routine checkups, I was told by my GP, IT MAY BY THE HORMONES PLAYING UP!!!
CAN ANYBODY ADVICE ME WHETHER I SHOULD HAVE THE COIL TAKEN OUT, COZ THAT WAS THE BEST METHOD THAT SUITED MY HEALTH, AND CONDOMS IS THE ONLY OTHER HEALTHY OPTION FOR ME BUT MY HUSBAND IS NOT COMFORTABLE WITH THEM.
I WOULD LOVE YOUR OPINIONS AND EXPERIENCES. U CAN EMAIL ME ON [email protected]
I HOPE TO HEAR FROM YOU SOON AND THANK YOU FOR YOUR TIME.