Everytime I think about my cs I feel sad. This is at least once every day when the scar causes me a bit of discomfort.
My dd was born by emergency cs after I was induced. I failed to progress past 3cm and she became distressed. I feel really dissappointed that I wasn't able to give birth in the calm and natural way I wanted. (waterbirth)
I also feel that things weren't explained very well to me. They didn't really explain to me or my dh what was going on let alone give me a choice. I also feel their refusal to call my dh the first 2 times I asked and their insistance that I lay on my back (so they could constantly monitor me) was probably the reason my dd got distressed as my bp would have been through the roof.
By not having a natural birth I feel that I let my dd down, my body down & myself down.
When I see my tummy I just want to cry. prior to my dd's birth my stomach didn't have very bad strech marks, but after they'd rummaged there's so many including big red splodgeythings. I don't feel like the same woman I used to be. I was one of those short t-shirt girls as although my tummy wasn't flat it was nice now it's revolting. (Thank God for tankini's )
We've started discussing when we should try for baby no 2. I know that I want another child not too far in age, but my dh says that he is dreading going through another similar situation.
I've been to the doctor regarding my scar as I was quite worried about it hurting at one point he checked me out and told me I was fine medically just said to wait 2 years before baby & that I shouldn't be returning to Aikido (martial art) for a while.
(incidentally when they say 2yrs does that mean from birth to conception or birth to birth?)
I just feel that my life is so on it's head since dd some of that I love, but some makes me so sad.
Has anyone else had this?
What did you do to get over it?
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How do you recover from an emotional cesarean scar?
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Aquababe · 26/04/2007 12:28
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