I'm getting really concerned about my memory at the moment.
Dementia runs in my family (great nan and nan both had it severely from age 55 ish onwards and now aunty also has it).
I'm 29 and I have a 1 year old. I have a good job where I use my brain a lot and work with figures.
The last 4 or 5 months I've noticed my memory seems to be failing me. At first it was a bit of a joke to DH, stuff like repeating myself and me not realising etc. But things are getting worse. Some examples -
- Put babies teddy in the fridge
- Put my make up on my bed but literally a minute later I couldn't find it. Found it in my bedroom bin the next day
- Left the freezer door open after taking something out resulting in everything being binned
- Passing dh my sons trainers, only to then immediately walk into the porch and tell him "I can't find his shoes" and I mean immediately
- Paying my parking ticket and within 5 mins having no recollection of where I put it and having to pay the £10 lost ticket price
- Some days I have no memory of driving home from work
- Dh tells reminds me of something that I swear blind he never told me
- Family member being in court over domestic violence. Was asked to be a witness but despite me being close to her and seeing my events over 10 years I cannot recall fully a single event from the whole time so had to say no
These are just what has come into my head without me really thinking about it.
I'm starting to really doubt myself at work now. I've always been so confident but this week I lost a file and whereas normally I'd know my boss just hadn't returned it I'm too afraid to ask now as I don't remember even handing the file over.
I'm embarrassed about my problem but also feel afraid. I sometimes feel like my head will explode
I am currently very stressed at work and home life is busy.
I told dh I may go to the doctors but he just laughed it off and said it will just be baby brain.
Anyone have any thoughts? I think it's unheard of to get dementia at my age but I don't know what else it could be?
Is baby brain really a thing or could it be as my mind is so busy?
Any advice would be welcome :)