Hi everyone,
I am new to this site but after browsing 10,000 google pages I found a few threads on here & hoped you ladies can help, share their experience & generally listen to me rant about this hellish time with my messed up body!
Where to start? So I gave birth over a year and a half ago & went to the GP mainly because I am basically now unable to have sex with my partner due to deep pain on intercourse. I waited a year after childbirth to see if that was the cause as had episiotomy and forceps so knew it could take a while. They did the whole pelvic exam - nothing (except pain). STI/Infection check - nothing. Is it in your head? No!!! At a loss was refered to gyne at the hospital. They asked about the sex pains which I explained are deep, agonising & basically its ruining my relationship. Then she went on to ask more questions about my periods & bowel habits etc. I explained I was put on the pill at age 11 due to AGONISING and heavy periods which has continued ever since, even on the pill though it did dull it, I went on the implant after giving birth as had 2 of the most painful heavy periods to date after I keeled over onto the floor several times screaming so the implant has dulled the pain but now I get random periods for weeks at a time they are still pretty painful too & make me feel sick, my bowel movements have always been a bit all over but since I had my little one, with both bowel movements and urination I cant feel anything until I'm literally about to go and have to dash. Plus 9/10 I feel constipated. I also explained I get lower back pain that radiates into my hip esp on the left side (at times its almost like mid labour contraction type pain!) and abdo/pelvic pain generally and even worse during menstruation. She said it sounded liked Endo.
So 3 months later I went for a laparoscopy almost 2 weeks ago now which found no endometriosis, scar tissue or cysts. When she came in saying "Good news!" I burst into tears, I don't think she realised how badly this is affecting my life. I then continued to cry, not sure my partner even knew how to comfort me I was that upset that almost 2 years we still have no answers.
I was told to go back to my GP and get them to refer me to Gastro. I was so out of it after the op combined with being slightly hysterical I wasnt told where they checked, never got told of any follow ups after. I feel a bit lost tbh. After a weeks recovery I hobbled into the Drs to be referred to Gastro, even he wasn't convinced it sounded Gastro but none the less I said I want to look at all options so just do it. Thats due in August.
I am going back to my GP tomorrow as I need another few days to pull myself together, I feel a bit better every day post op but have a telephone based desk job with long hours & atm cant sit upright for longer than half an hour or so before my abdo is killing plus the painkillers they gave me just make me want to vom I'd rather endure the pain! Can barely pick my little one up without it still hurting too so thats getting my down but know I'll be ok shortly. I was also going to have a good vent (like now) about how no one has bothered to do an ultrasound or MRI to rule out fibroids etc.
Has anyone got advice or been through this? The stress its causing me is awful, feel like my body just isnt normal and if I get asked one more time if its in my head I might scream, think my partner might burst soon too haha, but im all honesty its just getting to breaking point.
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Laparoscopy found no endo, what now? :(
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Retti · 19/06/2015 00:47
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