WTF is it with this patronising shit?
Are they trained to patronise mothers of their child patients?
Literally, about 7 times in a 3 minute conversation she called me Mum. At first I thought she was calling me Mam, as in Ma'am, which I thought oddly formal, but then I realised she was calling me Mum.
No one else calls me Mum except my children. My kids's teachers don't call me Mum, my kids' music tutors don't call me Mum, random or professional people who are talking to me about my DC's don't call me mum - only ever health professionals.
Why? WTF is their motivation? Don't they realise that it comes across as a patronising put-down? Or do they and that's their intention?
And do they call fathers of child-patients Dad? And if so why?
What does it all mean?
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Gah. Just had a conversation with a medical profession re my DS who called me "Mum" all the way through.
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FastidiaBlueberry · 20/11/2012 15:33
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