Hi! My husband and I have been discussing fostering and adoption for some time now. We've put it off due to pregnancies and house moves, but we now think the timing is pretty good. We've been to a few trust-run (we live in NI) information nights for both fostering and adoption and are still very keen. We are considering the age range of about 18 months - 5 years old, as that's what we feel will fit best with our kids (aged 9, 3 and nearly 2). As our trust likes there to be a 2 year age gap between our youngest biological child and any adopted children we are leaning more towards fostering. I know it's hard work and very time consuming, but will be leaving my part time job to give more time to it. We were also thinking more long term or possibly foster to adopt or something with permenance, although we aren't dead against short term. We are happy with sibling groups too. A social worker advised us to think about concurrent care, but it really deals with babies aged 0-2 and my husband isn't super keen to have a very young baby in the house again.
I just really wanted people's experiences really. How you decided whether to go for fostering or adoption, how you decided on what type of fostering to go for and any advice would be very much appreciated.
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KLHL777 · 03/05/2018 10:25
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