Hoping someone can help.
We are considering fostering, we were both really young, 19 when last (2nd child) was born and late 30s now.
We are concerned however about how prior social services involvement will affect us.
DS had severe behavioural issues, including aggressive violent behaviour, had respite, but was largely let down by SS, School and CAMHS. Was never given an official diagnosis, one headteacher thought he was dyspraxic, as her daughter had it and she saw many similarities. He also said to a counsellor once he wanted to kill his sister.
There was a child protection conference at one point to assess if we needed further support or more firm measures. It was instigated by School. Our social worker of the time, and all others, were behind us as parents and firmly in our corner. At the conference it was only people who had never met us or DS. Think three or four said they were against us, with everyone else behind us and we were offered access to additional services. We went ballistic and asked why these hadn't been provided sooner.
One of also also has a criminal record - nothing against a child, or violence. Low community service was the sentence and there were mitigating factors. This was as a teen.
Have given a lot of information that could out me. Didn't want to hold anything back though.
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Ehlana · 30/12/2016 04:37
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