Hi I am looking for advice we have had an 8 year old placed with us for almost a year and She has her hearing on the 6th of nov where social work reccomend her going home. The placement started well however we began having problems with child at summer where her mum was overstepping the boundaries i felt very unsupported and felt like ending the placement. Also at this point the contact went through the roof child began to get overnights
at her mums and there was no consistency. mum would complain about something or i had arranged babysitter for training and this gave her extra contact. personal information about my health was shared with the mother and she had knowledge of different medical appointments and again used this for more contact. It is currently the october holidays and child was arranged to spend 3 nights at Mums 2 nights at ours for holidays My link worker informed me that they have decided to let her spend the whole holidays with her mum as she is very unhappy to come back to us however after the two weeks she will have to come back for a few nights before the hearing. This to me makes no sense as after spending 3 days she is finding it difficult so how will it be any better in 2 weeks. The child has really struggled to settle back into our routines and is quite good at going back and forth telling tales and i feel that social work are blaming us for the problem even though i have asked for advice only to be told its one of these things. This was our first placement.
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paulam1 · 19/10/2012 21:16
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