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My 10 month old keeps doing this with apple which he loves so I am loathe to stop giving it. I think you should keep going under supervision, maybe cook the carrot 'til it's really soft. If they really are choking rather than gagging then a sharp slap on the back, or finger into mouth works well for me. If that doesn't work my Great Ormond street book says lie them face down on your knees and 'pat' their back firmly and if that doesn't work then 'heimlick' (spelling!) manoevre using four fingers rather than whole hands.

It's so frightening isn't it. I don't know about the Heimlick manoeuvre. What is that ?

Luckily we've never had this situation, but even a few coughs make you terrified, don't they.
I think though you are not meant to do a Heimlich manoeuvre on a child under one, possibly because their ribcages aren't strong enough. I think you place them tummy side down, head lowest on your outstretched arm, and pat their backs. As far as I recall that is what it says in my BMA Children's Medical Guide, by Dr Bernard Valman. I'd really recommend it to anyone. I think it is about to be replaced by When Your Child is Ill, same author, same publisher (Dorling Kindersley), but the original formula is so successful I am sure the new book will be an improvement on the last one.

Hi Pamina

I wish I could give her cheese but I try and avoid because of her eczema. Have you got any other ideas ?

tillysmummy, dd loved long softish slithers of avocado at that age (still does!) which didn't seem to lodge anywhere, just disintegrate. also squidges nicely through fingers.

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