Over 30 years ago someone persuaded me to watch a film that I thought would be boring because it was 'about boxing' by telling me 'no no no - it's about a boxer'
I've just watched the 7th instalment in the franchise. One which ended up not even 'just' being 'about a boxer' but about not giving up, finding your inner fight, about family not always being those you're related to but family you meet along the way, about loss, grief, facing our own mortality, about legacy, about pride.
And I thought it was just gonna be a boring macho film about boxing.
Lots of us enjoy films, we can watch them so easily now. I can remember waiting months even years post release to be able to see much anticipated productions.
For me they've been more than just entertainment.
They've been a shared experience, that still connects me to my family that I met along the way as well as my actual family.
From musicals watched with mum as youngsters
Sound of music
The King and I
West side story
Grease
Mary poppins
Wizard of oz
Calamity Jane
Meet me in St. Louis
To adventures watched with both parents
WWII and westerns which I protested at the time but several were excellent films.
James Bond movies - trying to work out how he'd evade the baddie, destroy his plans to rule the world and win the girl
To video watching days/eve with friends as a pre-teen and then teenager
Goonies
Indiana Jones
Star Wars
Back to the future
Ghostbusters
Top gun
To snuggling up with boyfriends watching romances that they claimed to not really want to watch
Say anything
Dirty dancing
Cocktail
Pretty woman
Four weddings
To enduring my now ex husbands tastes and making him endure mine (but actually finding their films quite good)
Basic instinct
Terminator
Con air
Speed
Point break
Scream
To actually enduring your very young child's latest obsession (ok some were alright)
High school musical
Princess diaries
Spy kids
Nim's island
Toy story
Monsters inc
To learning their developing personality, humour, morals through their film choices
Pitch perfect
Fault in our stars
Hunger games
Divergent series
Finding unexpected common ground (OK MAYBE I indoctrinated - a bit)
Thrillers like
Panic room
Red eye
Identity
Taken
Sixth sense
Or outright horrors
Scream
IT
Poltergeist
Nightmare on elm street
And sometimes just bonding, for us it's tearjerkers
Titanic
Up
ET
Steel magnolias
Marley and me
Love actually
As I watch my daughter become a young woman, creating her own "family along the way", dealing with heartbreak by watching a film guaranteed to make her cry (partly so she has an excuse, but mostly catharsis), learning of how the world she lives in came to be the way it is partly from watching biopics and documentaries about those who fought injustice and inequality, or even those who created it being brought down.
To having to watch films I didn't think I'd enjoy, or get anything out of for my degree, and discovering instead films that I wouldn't have watched and ended up loving, plus movies recommended by fellow students in discussions either informal or in seminars
In the cut
The piano
Betty blue
Ma vie en rose
Fargo
All about Eve
Gone with the wind
Breakfast at tiffanys
Gladiator
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Graphista · 11/08/2018 23:53
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