Hi everyone, haven't been on Mumsnet for a while in a (failed) effort to distract myself from TTC. Though this topic seems to be mostly concerning contraception I thought my query might come under the banner of 'family planning' as well as conception. Any advice appreciated!
DH and I have been TTC since July last year. We had one success in May this year which we only knew about when I started miscarrying. What followed was the worst few weeks of my life (the miscarriage wasn't diagnosed properly for four weeks and the bleeding lasted six. Also, I was diagnosed with skin cancer around the same time which, thankfully, has been effectively treated) .
We put this terrible time behind us and started again. Although my periods returned to normal straight away and we are having regular sex, we have not yet had any success. We are trying to stay upbeat about it all but it's very hard not to wonder why.
According to all the medical websites you should see your GP if you have been TTC for more than a year or have had three or more miscarriages. I don't know whether that means they won't do anything to help us until a year has passed since the miscarriage or they will start investigations now as it has been well over a year since we first started TTC.
I don't think I can face being brushed off by a doctor again (had enough of that at the EPU) so I was wondering if anyone can help us with this.
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chalky3 · 16/11/2010 12:44
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