DD (7y) plays 2 instruments and is grade 2-3 standard in both. She is keen, practices regularly, plays in groups etc.
We have a slight problem in that one of the teachers is very keen on exams and we appear to be on a bit of a treadmill. I wouldn't mind too much but having given exams "a go" it's clear that it's not (for now at least) the right thing for DD and it makes her miserable. DD is adamant that she doesn't want to do another music exam and I'm happy with that. We have tried to discuss with the teacher but it ended up with the teacher lecturing poor DD about music not just being for fun but the need for it to be perfect etc. and there was no point playing at all if she wasn't prepared to "try to be the best" DD cried on the way home saying that she wants to be a marine biologist and not a musician but she still wants to play.
Any tips on how to tactfully broach the subject again? DD knows that the pieces she has at the moment are "exam" pieces and is flapping that she's going to be made to take an exam. Unfortunately it's not possible to find another teacher, and with the exception of the exam issue, the teacher is lovely (if intense!) so don't want the relationship to break down.
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marialuisa · 23/09/2008 12:57
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