DH bot EU nationals (different countries of origin) have lived in the UK for more than 20 years. As a result of Brexit we are now considering moving to my home country, Germany. We are both naturalised, e.g. Britsih, dc are both british born, family language is English, all post High School qualifications and work experience acquired in England. Dc's native language is English, though they speak some German and a little Spanish.
I am worried about the UK economy after we Brexit, about the state of health care and education, pensions etc. All these factors are problematic in Germany too but overall provisioning for citizens and quality of life seem better in Germany.
If you are thinking about 'going home' or going to a third country after Brexit, can you share some of your thought processes with me? I am excited and scared at the thought of taking my family out of their familiar environment, the dc are both settled and happy at school, have friends, hobbies etc. we own a house have a mortgage.
But I worry about only barely being tolerated after Brexit; I am worried about people detecting that accent and never again truly belonging after we brexit. Before, we felt we belonged here, seeing that both dh and I spent our adult life here (since the age of 19/20) both dc born here, career based here etc. Now with xenophobia being promoted by the government and various popular news outlets we have suddenly become 'the other' l'etranger, the foreigner. This is so frustrating.
This feels like such a difficult period in our lives, and life has certainly not been plain sailing for us up until now. The one 'certainty' we had was that our chosen home country felt like home.
How do we get through this and make the right decision for our family? How will you?
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ConfusedDotEU · 21/02/2017 11:39
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