So I’ve been with my bf for 4 years.. at the start he'd come on nights out with me and my friends but he would never invite me out.. I’ve only been out with him and his friends 3 times! He said he likes to only go out with his friends and not with me too (only if I was to meet him at the end of the night)... so he has know this girl for quite a few years and he went out a few nights ago and he said he saw her out which was fine... I’m starting to get slightly paranoid (not sure why) so I checked his phone when he went out of the room... on his messages he had messaged her that night they were both out asking if she was still in the night club to which he replied yes.. she then sent him a message in the morning saying that it was a nice catch up because they haven’t seen each other in a while... it’s started to play on my mind because in my head he’d rather go on nights out and meet other girls than be on a night out with me ... am I over thinking this or do I have a right to be annoyed?
P.s I told him that it’s upset me and how it’s made me feel.. but am I being OTT?
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Itsjustme55 · 13/09/2019 22:05
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