Where would I report an underhanded racial encounter?
I took DD1 and DD2 to a local museum, when we got there was a family fun day on at the square of the museum, the volunteers of the museum were manning the rides.
We decided to go on the rides first, most were old fashioned type (think wooden, handmade). A man was that appeared friendly and openly chatty with everyone else was unusually hostile with me when I was getting the kids onto the ride - a sort of swing sleigh.
I turned around and made a joke to him about the ride but got another blank response. I stepped back and noticed how every family, or individual with children appeared, how this man would strike up conversation with anyone and everyone, he would carry on open ended statements, joke about - help parents with their kids even joke around picking different children up.
I then thought how I could strike up conversation to see if he was being personally off. I asked him if the other ride is free too or if you had to pay, I made an effort to smile and be open. However he was closed off and spoke as though he was very uncomfortable.
I took a closer look and noticed all the people he was going out of his way to be welcoming to all had one thing in common - they were white.
I noticed how I wasn’t offered any help when struggling to get my children out of the ride, unlike everyone else.
I noticed other families from a distance come and go which were Chinese, Asian, though not many - and they were not getting this mans ‘full attention’ shall we say.
I don’t know who to complain to but I feel disgusted. It was the passive aggressive way in which it was delivered, as though I was a third class citizen and then it all made sense that it could only be one thing.
I don’t want to complain to the museum because I think it’s the type of thing to get swept under. I don’t want to leave a bad review because it’s a great museum, but underfunded and ran by volunteers - I’d hate a bad review to reflect so badly on others.
I don’t know if contacting a higher body be worthwhile, as there is no real evidence to produce and it was so underhanded, it’s his word against mine.
But I don’t know where to turn to. Why volunteer for something knowing you would come into contact with so many different ethnicities?? Saddened by it all.
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Underhanded racism at museum - who to report to?
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Lanternhouse · 05/05/2019 19:06
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