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Is my partner cheating?

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Gee80 · 19/05/2018 13:52

For the last 7 months I have had strong suspicions that my partner is cheating on me. He goes out of his way to car share with his boss, I have caught him out lying about when they have been together at work and there has been correspondence out of work and at time like Christmas Day. Worse still in a late argument he admitted to loving his boss because she is nice to him before he hastily retracted this blaming me for pressuring him to answer! Last week I caught him parking down a side street before walking to and entering her house for 25 minutes before going to work. He says they were discussing work matters and that he parked away from her house because he knew I'd drive past looking for him. He says he loves me and he is looking for another job. I want to believe him but am I being the biggest mug by not leaving him? He went out for a works lunch yesterday with his boss and colleagues and I'm hurt he went when he knows full well that I hate them being together. He insists nothing is going on. Am I paranoid or a fool?

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Aprilmightbemynewname · 19/05/2018 13:59

Could you invite her to dinner at your house? You could gauge a lot in their company...

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Gee80 · 19/05/2018 14:01

She is very reticent and seems nervous on the occasions I have spoken to her. My husband would be suspicious of such an invite also...

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