I’ve just found out I’m pregnant. I’m on the mini pill and this is definitely not planned.
I’ve never been maternal and just can’t picture my life with a child/children even though I’m great with other people’s children. I don’t dislike children, I’ve just never had the biological urge to have my own.
What on earth do I do now? I know I don’t want this baby but I can’t help feeling like I should want it.
I can’t talk to family/friends - I’m surrounded by happily pregnant friends and relatives yet I don’t feel the same as them.
I can talk to the father but I know he will feel the same as me.
It’s a long shot but I need to hear others opinions/experiences to help me work out what I should do. I’m mid 30s, good career and absolutely no support - parents live 100’s of miles away.
Thanks and please be kind.
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Carpballs · 06/03/2018 21:43
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