I have severe hyperemesis, I've been admitted to hospital multiple times and the medication doesn't work longer than a few days.
I have a 2.5 year old dd who I've barely seen for 8 weeks, I can barely look after her, I can't make her food (or barely even get ready made food that my dp has made out of the fridge). I miss her so much and she's suffering.
My dp had depression and anxiety issues and he's really struggling to cope, like really struggling, he's doing everything.. and on top of that he some how needs to work. He's self employed so no work = no money, we're absolutely broke now because of the hyperemesis. We have no car, we need to move (no room for even a moses basket upstairs because our house is so tiny).
So, with every reason we decided to have a termination. The problem is I keep picturing my dd scan pictures at the same age and it's weighing really heavily on me. I have to have a scan tomorrow at the clinic and I know I won't see it but I already know what it looks like at 12 weeks (11 now, 12 at termination)... I'm not even sure what i'm asking, any one else been through this? What happened? TIA. (Please, please don't bash me, I couldn't take it right now)
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Hgmother · 21/02/2017 10:39
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