Went from 3 days a week to 4 over a year ago as dds were getting older and it seemed to make sense. But it's been really hard and my health has suffered recently and I feel constantly like I'm slowly sinking under the weight of the home vs work stuff. I'm a teacher with responsibility so there is lots of think about, plan and organise for this, as well as trying to keep everything at home ticking over.
Dh is v. supportive but it still seems to be me trying to remember all the dates, appointments, homeworks, stuff to take in to school/nursery, etc. We're going to sit down tonight and make a more structured approach to all this tsuff to help me and he's promised to try harder to help ease the load.
But I'm also thinking maybe another half a day off might help...? I think I just need more breathing space and a little more time to process everything better maybe. One afternoon a week is workable and I wouldn't need to cut any teaching hours. I think the Head would let me try it for a while (half a term maybe) and then make it more official if it helps.
I hate even writing this as it makes me feel like I'm failing, but something needs to give if I'm to keep my sanity as well as my job (which I love btw). How do other women manage where I'm failing?
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Working 4 days and am hassled - would half a day less make much of a difference?
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itchyandscratchy · 11/10/2009 19:23
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