Sorry this is a bit of a woe is me post - really just wondering if anyone else is in a similar situation and has any tips for coping?
I am meant to work 37.5 hours a week, I have two children who are in nursery for 20 hours a week (2 x 10 hour days) and my ILs look after them one day a week.
The rest of the time, if my husband is off work, I go to work, but if my husband is working (v irregular shifts) then I just don't go to work. I catch up from home in the evenings, or I work from home at the same time as looking after the children.
All in all I am not doing a good job of any of it; being a parent, being an employee, and as for keeping the house running, clean clothes, food in the cupboards etc, its a nightmare.
My husband is great when he is around but its feast or famine - some weeks its like being a single parent, then some weeks we are under each others feet.
If you have got to the end of this, well done! And sorry again for whinging. But please someone give me some coping tips before I crack...
(NB financially we are v stretched so its not an option to cut my hours or for DH to change his job)
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Working more hours than I have childcare for - am I the only one?
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FimbleHobbs · 05/05/2009 11:01
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