I have a male colleague who is in his mid 20s. when he gets drunk he’s really - I don’t know how to describe it - arrogant - drinks too much.
For example at a recent event (Work do) he was so drunk he couldn’t remember his behaviour - he gets arsey - someone had to ‘move’ him sat him down got him water.
At a recent work do - he was out I didn’t see him much. He has a girlfriend he’s spoken to me about. However he has also been ‘getting off’ with our Operations Director who is a married woman in her 40s
I was tipsy they were at the bar without thinking I went up to talk to them and I think I interrupted something - anyway the ops director walked off and then the male
Colleague got really weird. I was like sorry I interrupted and then I felt this pressure on my foot and he was stepping on my foot intentionally - I was like what the hell are you doing to him! He kind of put his arm around me and said sorry and I was like you were trying to hurt me! He then got a glass of water and kept bringing up to my head and tipping it - I walked away and then he came up to me a couple of times trying to tip this water on me.
I’m a grown woman a mother - I don’t take this shit so I was like ‘hey stop it...’ anyway I went to stand with other colleagues - next thing I know he’s thrown out of the bar.
I have to see him he’s in my team. I feel really like I was almost assaulted by him. It makes me feel uncomfortable to be around him now
My manager knows that he turns into a d!ck when he’s drunk as my manager (male) has had to look after him and work events.
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Changedmyname84 · 29/02/2020 22:50
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