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I've just had a couple of years out of the workplace, by choice, for family and other reasons. Basically I've done a huge amount of soul searching as to what I want out of life and work particularly, and why it was that I never attained the progression I wanted to in the various sectors I've worked in, despite always making strong starts.
I've come to the conclusion that I was an arsehole to work with, due to anxiety and fear of failure, jealousy, lack of direction, fear of going for the things I really wanted, wanting to be a big fish, etc etc. I never bullied anyone, but I can totally see how I'd have been a pain in the arse to manage and to have as a supervisor. I was bullied a bit at work but reacted badly to the fallout and lost all sympathy, which I can understand.
In essence I have now realised the error of my ways, to an extent. My issue now that I'm going back into the workplace soon (got voluntary work coming up in a couple of months to ease me back in), and I am terrified of falling back into old ways. I am 40, I cannot reinvent myself again; this is it now. I have to make it work, in work.
I am fine outside work, have lovely friends etc, but something about the pressure and competitiveness of the workplace flips a switch for my anxiety and I turn into a dickhead.
Any advice??
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I was an arsehole. Now what?
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ImJustCoddlingAnEgg · 19/08/2019 22:40
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