Hi everyone
I’ve never posted or commented anything here but I have found comfort and answers numerous times in these chats!
I’ve been extremely upset by job hunting for the last year.. I feel like I can’t deal with yet another rejection. I know my CV and cover letter are good enough because I got various interviews. I admit I’m not the best at interviews but in the last few months I’ve really been trying to focus on that and the last 3 interviews went great but.. NEVER an offer!
I won’t go into too much details anyway I have a degree and I have worked in various sectors. I didn’t work for a year having my child but I managed to get a job on a casual contract. I worked really hard for this company and after being told I was their best casual worker (their words) it turned out I wasn’t good enough for a real contract, they didn’t even give me an explanation for their decision.
Since I knew how much I sucked at interviews I decided to find a voluntary role (I had to interview for that as well obviously lol) but it has brought me nowhere! I do believe I’m getting interviews because of it but I’ve realised something else in my job hunting.. voluntary work is not taken seriously by employers, not matter how seriously you took your role. I have been applying for roles in my specialisation as well as for lower entry jobs, minimum wage jobs but in this country, I’m too OLD for them! If you’re over 25 you won’t be considered, probably under 21 is best for the employers so they can claim how good they are to be giving jobs and training the youngest generation while paying them the minimum they can!
On one of the most recent interviews I attended I was, again, asked how many children I had, if they attended nurseries, my husband’s job, how good my English was (she had read my cv, letter and talked with me.. was she for real? lol). Her excuse for asking these stupid questions was that they were a small business so she HAD to know. She was really impressed with my skills and I know she contacted my referee however.. unsuccessful.
I have been looking for cleaning jobs just to get some quick cash but why do I even need to write a “convincing cover letter”(quote from an advert) for it?! Here it comes - ever since I was a little girl I’ve been dreaming of cleaning your toilet, even better of unclogging it. I can turn on the washing machine like no other and make sure your s**y underwear are cleaned and scented with my organically made nettle detergent- Would that be good enough?
Anyway I am emotionally devastated and feel humiliated with this job hunting. Hours, days spent filling applications forms, perfecting my cover letter, searching companies and their goals thoroughly.. and for what? Every single time I interview with any company I imagine myself working there and progress. And how I will finally have not to worry about spending little money for myself.
Luckily I am a person with a positive outlook on life but this search has made me cry far more times than I would admit. At this time I’m starting to believe that nobody is ever going to like me enough to offer me a job and I need to get a break from applying or I will get depressed I often think that the ‘best actors’ get the jobs not the best qualified..Meryl Streep movie before interview I guess.
I don’t know what I’m expecting from posting here I just wanted to share my story and my disappointment. If you are a recruiter/employer please be fair and reply to job seekers, they work just as hard as you to get your attention -without getting paid for it-
Lots of love for anyone who at least reads this
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Tasssx · 22/11/2017 19:15
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