My boss has started teasing me, making little comments, in front of other people which make me feel really uncomfortable. I'm not sure if I'm just being over sensitive/ paranoid though.
She's only been my boss a couple of months as my normal boss is on maternity leave, we have got on great so far and I thought we had a really good working relationship but there's this fly in the ointment which won't go away.
I'm sure it's just banter and she probably doesn't mean anything by it but it makes my blood boil. Not sure what to do.
It's really hard to give examples and when I do they don't even sound that bad in print as I can't get the tone of voice she uses and eye-rolling expression, but believe me she rolls her eyes and uses a sarky kind of tone. As in 'I cant believe Maggie did (insert slightly embarrassing anecdote of choice) It feels like she's having fun at my expense, basically.
My brothers used to tease me as a child and then I was teased at school so there's no way I can let this roll over me without getting upset but at the same time I don't want to make a fuss when everything else in our working relationship is going well.
So - put up and shut up, or say something? And going to her boss is out, not that I would at this stage anyway but for a number of reasons that isn't an option. She won't be my boss forever but she will be for another 9 months or so.
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my boss is teasing me - or am I being oversensitive
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maggiethemagpie · 01/12/2014 21:06
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