Hi, I had a miscarriage in early January which has triggered some quite hard-to-shake depression and possibly PTSD.
I am a teacher and term started 4 days later. I went back. Eventually struggled with the lack of sleep and constant crying and was persuaded to have a couple of weeks off. Came back full-time, struggled again and had some more time off. GP totally supportive, headteacher also. Started ADs and work paid for some counselling.
Went back on a reduced timetable on a fit note ('you may be fit to work if...) and that worked well for the whole of the summer term.
Now still not properly well and the thought of school next week is not helping. GP worried about me going back full-time. Think current plan is to carry on reduced timetable but HT will not be impressed as he wanted things 'back to normal' in September. I do admit that I am also frustrated that this is dragging on so long but I cannot imagine coping with work and life when this summer I have only just coped with life. It seems a good compromise to go in and do the teaching but to work at home for parts of days like I did last term, just for a couple of weeks.
What worries me is what happens next. Someone on another thread pointed out that pregnancy-related stuff can't be counted for disciplinary or sacking purposes, but how long does my mental state go on before it stops being considered pregnancy-related (after all, I stopped being pregnant seven months ago)?
I did ask in June to swap roles to a less senior one that I would have coped with better and the HT wouldn't let me. I have more responsibility this year than last and less time to do it in. I would be nervous anyway even if I was 100%.
What will happen to me if I don't get 'back to normal' quickly? Can I get sacked or could I negotiate a less stressful role? TIA.
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somewherebeyondthebarricades · 25/08/2014 13:22
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