No diagnosis but I have always felt different, struggled to empathise, am oblivious to workplace tensions unless they are very overt, and looking back on my childhood I am surprised nobody ever picked up on my differences which were more marked then. I score highly on the AQ test and when I dissect arguments I have with my partner I can see that I am intractable. He says he's never met anyone who can make him angrier than I do but I am always the one who is calm and resolute when we argue.
I have learned to fit in and am successful in life but would like to go further in my career. This would mean taking a managerial role though, which is unavoidable and inevitable. But I am very worried about it.
I am not assertive enough and I am a "yes man". I struggle with confrontation even if it is justified. I capitulate easily. I struggle to accommodate differences in procedures and am not good at "letting go" and letting others do things I feel I could do better. I struggle to see the bigger picture and get bogged down in minutiae. I can tend towards anxiety, depression and even paranoia. I am very self-aware though and can usually reason with myself to overcome these feelings.
I am worried that these traits would combine to make me really bad at a job where I am responsible for ensuring others can do their jobs well.
Does anyone have any experience of Asperger's in the workplace that they could share with me?
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Can you ever be a good manager or boss if you are a bit Aspie?
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hmmhmm · 19/02/2013 11:32
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