I have changed my name due to utter shame as I really have done the stupidest thing I have ever done.
I start a new job at the end of the week. Basically, I got fired from my last job (not for fraud or anything, I told someone what I thought of them and when it all kicked off, I had suffered quite a traumatic bereavment the week before and I had no interest in the disciplinary hearing and did nothing to put my side forward....not an excuse though, I was in the wrong, simple as that) and when I applied for this job, they didn't ask the reason for my leaving that post (I have had a job inbetween then and now).
I got an interview and, stupidly, I am still so ashamed that I got fired from my last job, I didn't say anything about it and said I left for another reason. I got offered the job and I start at the end of the week. They'll find out I lied when they check my references, won't they? I have been stressing about this for days now, swinging between hoping to god they won't ask my referee why I left (in which case, if they find out after I have started, they will be well within their rights to sack me...) and trying to get up the courage to ring the manager tomorrow and confess, explain what happened and that I was really ashamed of everything, apologize for wasting their time etc and see what happens.
Please somebody, just tell me I have made the right decision here.....please none of you go on too much about how stupid, foolish and idiotic I am, I know that.
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FoolOfTheHighestOrder · 25/07/2011 21:02
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