We both work for the same company but are looking to get out (along with virtually all its other employees as some very nasty things have gone on recently but that's a whole other thread). We have both applied for a job with a local competitor. I may be wrong but I am fairly certain that the job will go to one of us, as the other three people who have applied are also from our company and don't have nearly such relevant skills.
My friend REALLY, REALLY wants the job and has done so from the very start. It's in the exact field she's been looking to move in to for some time and there are not many jobs like it. It would also be absolutely perfect for her geographically as it's right near her home and the school her children are at. She said today that if she doesn't get it, she is seriously going abroad as there are no other comparable opportunities here at the moment.
For me, on the other hand, this is just one of many jobs which sound good. I'm much more of a generalist than she is and not nearly so bothered about my area of specialisation. I feel like I could probably be happy in quite a wide range of different environments. However, I don't currently have anything else in the pipeline, I do very badly want out, and if I were to be offered this position I would not hesitate to take it.
Would that be the right decision do you think? Or should I diplomatically decline and say I'd prefer it to go to my friend (assuming she is second choice)? How would you feel if you a good friend took the job of your dreams which you knew she wasn't that bothered about anyway?
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Would you give up a job offer for a friend?
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MeantToStopAtTwo · 08/06/2011 22:07
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