Hi, I happily worked in my job for over 10 years and am respected and liked with my co-workers. The last year hasn't been easy as there have been many changes but we have all recently started on a new project. Can't say too much about as I don't want anyone in RL to recognise me. I was offered the opportunity to apply for the project manager job but decided against it and a project manager was appointed. He was a redeployee and is an experienced project manager but knows nothing about the very technical job that it is.
From the offset there have been many problems, miscommunications and misunderstandings. He has patronised and upset most people on our team but especially me. He has been downright rude to me on a few occasions.
Last week he told me to do one thing and then when I started doing it he completely contracticed me in front of other people in a meeting. I admit I over reacted and got upset and walked out of the meeting. Over the weekend I thought about it hard, wrote my boss (not him) a long email explaining my actions and why I'd been so upset. I had a meeting with my boss today and I apologised for overreacting and said I wanted to work better with the project manager and move on etc. We agreed what I would do and everything seemed to be moving on but I did say that in future I wanted clear instructions about what to do and to be treated with respect.
He organised a 2nd meeting between the 3 of us and I repeated what I said, apologised, said I wanted to move on but that I wanted clear instructions about what to do and to be treated with respect. To this the project manager replied that he now wanted me to be disciplined, to have HR present in every meeting with me, for me to leave the project, to take it further etc...
Don't know what to do, I have 2 kids at home, really need the job and not the stress.
Thank you for taking the time to read this.
Please or to access all these features
Please
or
to access all these features
Chat with other users about all things related to working life on our Work forum.
Work
problems at work
8 replies
livinginthesticks · 11/04/2011 22:07
OP posts:
Please create an account
To comment on this thread you need to create a Mumsnet account.