This is becoming increasingly difficult. I grew up in a cluttered, dusty, grimy home. Not great but not awful.
Now my DP are in their 70s things have got worse and worse. My DD is carer for DM although he has significant health issues himself.
The living room is cluttered and dusty but generally ok as this where they mainly live. There are millions of ornaments and bits that are dusty but ok.
The kitchen, bathrooms and bedrooms are something else. Rotten food on the hob, corners of the works top, grime all over the cupboards, piles of clutter and dust. Sweepings in a corner just added to.
Filthy towels and bed linen, carpets upstairs not hoovered for years.
They will not accept help, roll their eyes and tut at me when i make it clear how bad ita got.
Social Care are involved but their only concerns seemed to be that the comode and cat litter are emptied daily. Assessment pending.
Any advice? I have suggested a deep clean and then a cleaner.
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House becoming squalid. How far to push?
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Chosennone · 13/10/2019 19:17
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