Mum had a fall and a hip replacement but because of her severe dementia she would not co-operate with the physios and so has lost the ability to walk. She has also lost the ability to swallow, but we are confident that we can give her soft foods and that she would want to be home with her husband if at all possible. She knows (and loves) him.
She will be returning home with a hospital bed and hoist, and four care visits a day, morning, noon, afternoon and evening. However she will be in bed for 12 hours a night with no care visit planned/available to turn her. And I have had no advice or support from the hospital to know how to manage this.
She could pay for a private night time visit from carers. Or I have found matresses online which cost £1000+ with an air pump so that they vary the shape of the matress. She could afford one and I am pretty sure that it will be essential - but would she still need turning regularly. Am I mad to have said that we could manage her? (I have been concentrating on finding out about her new physical needs, organising the care package, learning about her new medications and eating regime - skin care has only just come to the top of the list)
Posting at a mad time of day, so may bump for traffic later. Any advice much appreciated.
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Skincare for bedbound patient at home
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Notverygrownup · 16/01/2019 06:07
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