DM lives alone (40 miles away)
She's currently undergoing lots of hospital tests (she's under 4 separate consultants)
My DB lives in another country, all my DM family also live over an hour away from her (and most of them not interested) so basically I'm her main carer.
I've used - God this sounds so selfish- a lot of my holiday this year taking her to hospital appointments, to the point where I've said I can only take her now when she has to see a consultant (tests she can take herself for)
My work have been very good, although I hate taking random days off here and there... and I now have limited holiday remaining (to the point I've worked overtime so that I can use the time to take DM to appointments)
She's now been referred for a colonoscopy and camera down her throat (can't remember the technical term) and these are tests that really she can't go on her own...
She told me last night the stomach camera test is next Tuesday... I am unable to make up extra time at work as I have other pre-planned commitments the next two weekends... then I have a week off early October (I'm supposed to be going away 🙄)
I don't know why I'm posting... I'm tired and emotional today.... but I need to speak to my boss about next Tuesday (and also the upcoming colonoscopy- for which there is no date yet... probably will be when I supposed to be away!) I just want a day to myself 😳
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OldSpeclkledHen · 19/09/2018 08:08
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