MIL has Alzheimer’s disease and is progressively getting worse. Social services think she’s still able to live at home despite numerous examples of safeguarding issues, going missing etc. Until something happens they won’t take action. Because her situation is fairly complex in that she’s quite functional, able to wash herself etc but her problem solving and cognitive function has declined hugely. Everything we put in place she refuses and by that I mean things like GPS tracker so we know where she is - she said we were spying on her and now just leaves her keys at home, leaving her flat unlocked etc. This is a tiny fraction of what we deal with every day and our employers are fed up of us having to deal with issues in work time. Any advice would be appreciated from people in this situation.
Because we are having to go there so often, pick up shopping unexpectedly, pay for little bits here and there, we often end up out of pocket. But it’s adding up now to about £40 a week. Dh has poa (joint) but every time we take a bank card off her she goes to the bank and reports it lost/unknown pin so we never have the correct pin for her card or it’s been stopped. We have access to her bank so if we withdraw money from our own bank to give to MIL can we just repay from her account?
Alzheimer’s is a horrible, devastating disease.
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OrangeFurryCat · 28/01/2018 22:02
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