She is currently a 'bed blocker' in hospital, having had a procedure to relieve symptoms of cancer. We have been told the only other treatment is palliative care.
The hospital social worker has assessed her as ready to be discharged to home (sheltered but unsupported LH housing) with her previous level of social care (x3 visits of 15 mins per day).
DH is not happy with this plan, and at least some of the Drs and nurses agree with him that she now needs a higher level of care, probably residential. She is being disruptive on the ward and has fallen over a couple of times due to mobility problems. DH applied for POA around 4 weeks ago but it hasn't yet been granted.
We just don't know how to take things forward from here. Getting information out of the hospital about the cancer prognosis has been impossible. There are never any Drs available when DH visits after work.
The whole situation is causing DH an enormous amount of stress and he has very little in the way of support from his siblings.
Sorry for the ramble but does anyone have any suggestions about how we can sort this out?
Thank you.
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MIL with mobility problems, dementia and now terminal cancer
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fadingfast · 07/10/2015 18:25
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