Iam at my wits end trying to look after DM.
She has been ill but won't qualify for any sort of care package. Also she will not accept strangers in the house.
She is virtually impossible to look after.its like she wants to stay unwell and dependent.
This morning there has been 1.5 hours of crying. Then some shouting then panic attacks about death. Then lots of "I'm hungry but can't eat" " I should really eat but what's the point" "I had a sandwich yesterday" ffs if you want me to make something just ask properly but actuallyhees no physical reason why DM can't make her own food and I'm exhausted.
She is meant to be up and about but is refusing and keeps going back to bed. I've tried and tried to persuade her it is better to be up and about and to stay mobile. Having a nap is fine but not all day everyday in bed. Then there's the panic and wailing when I have to leave and its really heart wrenching.
I know I sound horrible but I can't cope. I can't seem to get DM to try. She won't tell the dr how depressed she's feeling but won't let me go with her either so she is not getting all the help she should.
I don't know what to do.
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Newyearnewoutlook · 12/01/2015 12:52
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