She has alzheimers, early stages, and has good days and bad days. She is still in her own home and has carers going in morning and evening, they prepare a meal for her and encourage her to wash but they won't bathe her.
On several occasions I've suggested I run a bath and wash her hair for her but she flatly refuses. I think it has been at least three months since her last bath and hair wash. Surprisingly she doesn't smell, prob because she does wash, and her hair looks ok but I feel like she's being neglected really. But how do I encourage her to get in the bath! She's very headstrong and if she doesn't want to do something she's hard to budge!
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How can I 'force' my 84 year old mum to have a bath?
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sandyballs · 17/10/2011 13:33
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