Just wanted to say hi, I wish this topic had been around before.
My Mum was taken ill over a year ago and the past year has been a process of her and us adjusting to the change in her circumstances from a independent person to someone who needs help with everything. She has still not come to terms with this.
She is in a nursing home near to us but desperately unhappy and talks all the time of when she can come and live with me which is not going to be possible. She is completely paralysed down one side and needs help to do absolutely everything. My dcs adore her and we include her in our life as much as possible, I have been trained to get her in the car, on the comode etc and I see her nearly everyday, we spend one whole day together in the week and she usually comes to us one day at the weekend but it is not enough for her! The Nursing Home is lovely, she has her own friends coming to visit her as well.
I just want her to be be happy and be able to live and enjoy what she has now. What has happened to her is horrible and I so understand her frustration but I am finding the constant unhappiness a struggle.
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gremlindolphin · 13/10/2011 21:55
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