Fellow mumsnetters, I'd really appreciate some help with this.
DS9 will go into year 5 in Sept, he is the oldest child in the class. His current school where he has lots of friends and which he loves, has good ofsted, lots of PE, music and was 7th in the league tables last year OR move to a private school in anticipation of the difficult transition (I predict) to senior school.
He has other friends outside school as we live in a village outside the catchment area of his current school, this also means that at 11 he would go to a different school than his friends from school. My reason for wanting to move him was because he is a "middle of the road" child in everything, academically, sporting etc, this leads to him and other children in his class inadvertenly, being overlooked. I have no issues with his teacher, she is excellent (much better the teachers for his last 3 years).
Conversationally he is very bright,aware and questioning. However his reading is average, his handwriting whilst improving is poor, which has a knock on effect on maths which he is very good at,(ie the columns dont line up so they dont add up). I have arranged a tutor for him, (his old reception teacher, she has now left his school) and he enjoys the lessons and the homework from her. The real problem is that over the last 4 years he seems to have got further and further behind from being top of the class to the middle, sliding inexorably towards the bottom.If I dont move him now I suspect he will find the transition at 11 difficult, accademically with the extra homework, new subjects, as well as new people, this may all just be too much and he would start to flounder.
I feel that if he goes in Sept to the private school with 40 children over 3 classes he should get both the attention and support to help him in prep for senior school, additionally it should help to build his self esteem by acheiving his potential. We went to the open day last week and he absolutly adores the new school and seems happy with the thought of moving schools. DS and I have discussed making new friends, extra homework, stricter rules etc and he is still keen. So why am I worried?
Please help, any advice.
Thanks.
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Starmummy · 14/05/2005 14:40
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