Bit of background info first.
Dd2(8) went on a course during the summer which involved wearing costumes and taking part in a performance. On dress rehearsal day, she got changed in the disabled loos and left her clothes in there and her performance mask(forgot to take them out). To cut a long story short, another boy went into the loos and urinated all over her clothes and her mask. He was discovered and sent home. Dd2 was, as you can imagine, very upset about it but it was dealt with very well by the play leaders. This boy was from another school and tbh we thought no more about it.
Fast forward to now - we have moved house. Not only is this boy in her school, he is in her class and she has been sat next to him. He is noisy and disruptive and getting dd2 into trouble (I've heard this from other people, not dd2). She is easily distracted and no angel but being sat next to this boy is not helping her (but I appreciate that no-one wants to sit next to him and he has to sit somewhere!)
Dd2 said to me this weekend that she just can't face sitting next to him again next week. I think it's mostly because she is fed up of getting into trouble. That bit I don't have much sympathy for - it takes two to talk/argue/etc and she admits she is not perfect. But I do wonder if the urinating episode in the summer has something to do with her discomfort - but don't really want to bring it up with her because otherwise it will "become" a reason.
I'm wondering whether or not to have a word with the teacher. What I'm really worried about is that she will blurt out "I hate sitting next to X because of what he did at playscheme" in the middle of the class - it's not something that I would want to be common knowledge really. But would it be wrong of me to mention it to the teacher in confidence? Or relevant? Or should I just leave it?
Off to bath ds so I won't be back for a while.
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Another thread about dd sitting next to someone she doesn't like - I'd be interested in your views on what to do
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Miaou · 12/11/2006 19:03
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