Hi all, (name change)
My DS (first child) is nearly 3 months old and I'm worried I may be slipping into my ED mindset.
Bit of background: I first started suffering with bulimia at 13 due to a childhood of abuse, coupled with bullying (about my looks) and worry over my abusive father finding me and my mother after we managed to leave. I slowly got better after a couple of years.
Then I went to university in 2014 and struggled with living with vile housemates and the onset of bipolar. I slipped back into my bulimia and then into a sort of binge/purge anorexia where I would restrict as much as possible. Living on 3 got chocolates, a couple of cups of green tea and one bowl of soup as my meal at night so under 300 calories but would generally purge this back up nightly.
Again I recovered after recognising the signs and being brave enough to ask for help before the ED got its horrible grip around me. Since late 2015, I have been doing really well to the point that calories haven't mattered to me at all.
When I was pregnant I actually adored my pregnant body and straight after birth my bump literally disappeared! I had the typical flabby untaught stomach but was, for the most part, slimmer than before I was pregnant and so was relatively comfortable. However, I'm very aware that I have put on weight since having DS and am increasingly feeling a slip back into my ED mindset.
I planned to lose weight as healthily as possible with an exercise DVD and not restricting at all at first just smaller portions of what I like to eat, for the exact reason that I didn't want to trigger myself back into an ED mindset! However, over the last few days I have been consciously eating less and forcing myself to go longer without eating each day. The ED is beginning to fill my mind again, I can feel it and, as sick as it is (wonderful diseases aren't they?!) part of me wants it to take over so that I can finally exude some self control and stop stuffing my face and actually be a nice weight and not chubby like I am now!
I recognise that I really need help in these early stages before it progresses but don't want to confide in DP because he was so hurt the last time I suffered to the point he threatened to make himself sick every time he found out I had (I was never good at hiding it). What can I do? Has anyone else felt this way and overcome it? Please help
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Eating disorders
Post-baby and slipping back into old ways please help (triggering content)
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slippingback · 10/01/2017 22:19
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