When my exDH got divorced (about 8 years ago) he told me what he wanted to pay in child support based on CMS recommendations for his wage at the time. I accepted and it was made into a consent order. After a year he tried to argue that a consent order only lasted a year so he was halving payments, and I had to get solicitors involved. He's always been very keen to pay only what he has to for as short a time as possible (ie wanted it written into the consent order to stop paying as soon as our youngest finished primary school, but was told that wasn't possible). He's also had several pay-rises since the consent order, but has never varied the payments. That's ok with me as I accepted a consent order rather than CMS.
He's recently been made redundant from his (senior management) position. I understand his income has evaporated and if he had historically behaved differently about money I'd accept this without question. I know the jobs market is a nightmare at the moment and I'm not a monster. However, as I said, he was in senior management and was with the company since he left school, so I imagine the redundancy payment would have been significant (if I ask he will not answer honestly). He's stated that now that he has no income, he will only pay me £10 a week.
I suspect that the consent order still stands, and that I could have it enforced by the court in the future if he got another job. I suspect this because someone I know was in the same situation and the court awarded back-payments for the entire amount once her DH had got another job. This is an expensive route though.
On the other hand I could apply to CMS. I am hoping they'd look not just at his current income but at his redundancy payment as an additional factor. The trouble with this though, is that as soon as I apply to CMS the consent order becomes invalid.
It seems that applying to CMS would be the most fair thing to do, as they will weigh up the whole situation. On the other hand, I know he's been paying less than what the CMS would have calculated for the last few years and it may be foolish to invalidate my own consent order.
I know I can't just leave it, but have no idea what route to take.
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CMS application or not? Newly redundant ex cutting payments
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WhiteWidow001 · 09/09/2020 11:20
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